Everyone tells you what to do for marriage proposal ideas. What about the things not to do in marriage proposal ideas? Picture it. They’ve been dreaming about this moment forever and if they are the one, you will hear about your proposal for the rest of your life. Yes they have expectations but those can be fulfilled without major blunders if you pay attention. So avoid these mistakes, cross your fingers, and all will be well!
- No Ring: Sounds like it’s obvious, doesn’t it? But can you believe that several top dating sites rank it the most common mistake guys make while proposing? Just because you are asking does not make it a done deal. You have to produce a ring to sign, seal and deliver it. Find a family heirloom or a funny, pink plastic ring à la Tom Cruise in Mission Impossible III. But put something on their finger when you ask the question.
- Do Not Pop the Question in the First Fifteen Minutes: Jumping the gun is not the smartest thing you can do. Take your time with them, no matter how awesome, incredible and beautiful they are. They deserve someone who will stay and not ditch them after the first fight. So, hold your ring in your pocket until you have had all of your bitter firsts. Once you feel like you have 'really' seen it all and you are still head over heels in love with them, then go get 'em!
- Popping the Question with an Audience: A recent survey of women showed that they consider proposing in public or in front of the family as a sure way to spoil the mood – and can even end the relationship for good. This moment should be personal. It’s a silent, long walk on the beach moment that they want just the two of you to share, so if you’re torn between options, go with the private proposal choice.
- Wait For the Right Moment: always remember, they will tell this moment to the entire world, for the rest of your collective lives. And if you want it to feel more like 'The Notebook' and less like 'How I Met Your Mother' than take your time and pace your plan. And no matter how anxious you are, do not pop the question until it feels absolutely right.
These steps are simple to write but we do not underestimate how much self-control they will require from you. So relax and join yoga for a week before proposing. We wish you luck!
